Borderline personality disorder

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What is borderline personality disorder?

Borderline personality disorder (BDP) is a complex mental health condition.

The term BPD is used as a way of grouping a set of symptoms to identify and refer towards appropriate treatment. The name does not describe the experiences of living with BPD. It is important to remember you are not your diagnosis but an understanding what is going on can help you move forward and focus on treatment and recovery.

BPD refers to a particular set of difficulties that affects a person’s sense of self, their emotions and their relationships. It is usual to experience relationship and emotional highs and lows. A diagnosis of BPD is reached based on an assessment of these difficulties over time and across a range of situations. These difficulties affect the person's ability to get on with living their life.

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BPD symptoms

The Australian BPD Foundation explains that a person with BPD may experience challenges and difficulties in a number of ways.

  • Emotions: having intense or unstable emotions that are overwhelming and very difficult or painful to experience. As a result, you may turn to other ways to cope with these emotions that may not be helpful.
  • Relationships: experiencing rapidly changing feelings may affect your relationships and make navigating them confusing. Loss and separation can be extremely confusing.
  • Perceived impulsivity: experiencing difficulty with managing impulses and taking part in harmful behaviours.
  • Unstable sense of self: these emotions and experiences can make people feel very uncertain about themselves and develop a lack of trust.

BPD and coexisting conditions

Borderline personality disorder may also be associated with other conditions:

Because of the complex nature of these conditions we recommend seeking help from a qualified health professional who understands the importance of correctly diagnosing and treating mental health conditions.

Treatment options

We offer a variety of inpatient programs and day programs.

Your treatment may involve medications, psychotherapies, exercise, nutrition and pastoral care as well as group or individual sessions with a psychologist or psychiatrist.

We offer cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT), which can help people with borderline personality disorder reduce suicidal behaviour, self-harm, alcohol and drug misuse, anger and depression.

In the community

Community mental wellbeing services across New South Wales, Victoria and Western Australia.

Mental health enquiries

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